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Giving Thanks

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This Thanksgiving as your belly swells from the Thanksgiving meal with all the stuffings, here's a chance for us all to focus on giving thanks for all things and in all situations.

That may seem difficult for some. In these tough economic times, I’ve heard of many painful struggles. I’ve also reported many stories of worse pain than financial loss—the death of a loved one. Many are grieving today because cancer claimed their spouse. Others are mourning the loss of a soldier who won’t be home for the holidays this year or the death of a child from a senseless accident.

There are many things in life we just can’t understand. There are many moments in life when it seems almost insane to be giving thanks for the crisis. But I think what it really means to give thanks for all things and in all situations is to harbor a general attitude of gratitude. In other words, allow a thankful spirit to reside in you through all of life’s circumstances. It’s not necessarily that we’re giving thanks for   tragedy but, I guess you could say, that we’re remembering what there is to be grateful for while in the midst of the tragedy. Yes, it’s a bit of the old adage, “count your blessings”—but isn’t that really what’s best for all of us? In the end, if we see the glass less than half-full then we’re depriving ourselves of the opportunity to discover real treasures, real hope—(the full  half of the glass).

 When we have sincere hope, passion, and gratitude, life comes alive. It’s as though an electrical current races through our bloodstream charging and revitalizing every cell in our body. Wow! Even a double-shot cappuccino can’t do that… (okay, maybe if it’s a straight espresso shot). But this is the natural high that comes from living in a continual state of thankfulness.

Maybe you’ve seen the bracelets that some people are wearing these days. They’re just a token bracelet to help them conquer a huge and prevalent problem—complaining. The bracelet is switched from one wrist to the other whenever the person complains. The idea is to make it a complaint-free day for 21 days in order to break the complaining habit. I think we ought to instead wear gratitude bracelets. Don’t concentrate only on not complaining. Wear your favorite bracelet and every time you look at it give thanks. Then if you find you’re forgetting to give thanks, switch the bracelet to your other wrist. Focus on what you want to grow bigger in your life. So, by having a gratitude bracelet on your wrist it will prompt you to live in a more grateful state. When you’re living in gratitude there is no room for complaining. Life just seems to take on an easy going way even when some things might not be easy. Try it, you’ll like it. 

Last Updated ( Thursday, 26 November 2009 11:19 )
 

I am Responsible

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They are just three words… but strung together, vocalized, and believed, they initiate a powerful current that shapes a person’s destiny.

As many of you who regularly read my column know, I have a teenage daughter. And, like many of you who are parents, I often wonder, what is the most important impression I can make on my 14-year-old to help her to have a successful, happy, and enriched life.

I have found the answer is: I am responsible. I’ve also found that that phrase is vital not just for her but for me as well. As you peel back the layers in people’s lives, you discover that the path they have taken is a direct result of their beliefs, attitude, and level of responsibility. Their accountability determines what they will accomplish in life because if they believe they can succeed, achieve, and assume responsibility for their future then they will. If they believe the exact opposite that success is luck, achievement is a mysterious gift, and responsibility for their wellbeing is outside of themselves, the path they travel will take their journey in a very different, and often, disappointing direction.

I am responsible is a mantra in my household. It takes the place of “I’ll never”. Often people say, “I’ll never” dot, dot, dot. But then one day they do the dot, dot, dot. Then the phrase “’l’ll never…” no longer applies. However, it’s at that moment that the powerful words, “I am responsible” can be uttered and change the direction of a person’s life instantly.

Taking responsibility and ownership of our lives brings a level of peace, trust, and individual power. It is the opportunity to reclaim our dreams. Many of my colleagues are entrepreneurs who echo the words, “I am responsible” when they wake up each morning and then work to bring their vision of growing a successful company stronger each day. It’s this spirit that represents the chance to better not only their lives but also our world.

A lack of hope and belief that anything can be done to improve one’s self, the economy, a career, results in futile efforts. When you make the words, “I am responsible” part of your daily life you have determined that your results will be a direct reflection of your efforts.

In highly successful people we can see their beliefs and sense of responsibility have carried them far in life. Here are some comments from a broadcaster who has impacted TV and many lives.

Oprah Winfrey is quoted as saying, “My philosophy is that not only are you responsible for your life, but doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment.”  She continues, “I don't think of myself as a poor deprived ghetto girl who made good. I think of myself as somebody who from an early age knew I was responsible for myself, and I had to make good.”

I am responsible. Three powerful words that can help all of us “make good” in our lives.

Last Updated ( Thursday, 12 November 2009 02:18 )
 

Finding A Cure For Breast Cancer

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In honor of breast cancer awareness month, Live Fit Magazine congratulates Forman's Foundation to Find a Cure. The non-profit organization launched its first successful Celebrity Golf Tournament this year. President and Founder, Mark Forman, lost his wife Tracy to breast cancer only a year ago. Actors, NFL players, famous golfers, comedians, newscasters, jockeys, baseball players, breast cancer survivors, volunteers, and people who wanted to make a difference joined together for the first of what is now an annual Celebrity Golf Tournament fundraiser. 

Click the video below to see the spectacular event and learn how you can help find a cure and save lives.

                         

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Last Updated ( Tuesday, 25 May 2010 15:42 )
 

Where Happiness Exists

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There is a pandemic disease in our country—thought pollution. Thought pollution is the random and continuous stream of negative thoughts that fill our head. It’s the over-thinking, repeatedly analyzing, excessive talking about the problems, issues, concerns, worries that plague our lives. The idea is that by thinking, talking, analyzing a problem, a solution will be found.  But what is really happening, is that we are giving so much attention to the problem or worry that we are encouraging it to develop into an even bigger problem—this is thought pollution.

Focusing and rehashing troubles produces negative thoughts. The negative thoughts create emotional “trash” that pollute your life and cause you to become unhappy. To see what I mean, take a problem and discuss it at great length. You may initially feel a sense of relief from the unloading of the problem—that sense of relief comes from getting something off your chest—but you will find as you continue to talk about the problem, your mood will shift to an unhappy state. Thought pollution will cause you to become emotionally distraught—even though the problem hasn’t gotten any worse except in your mind. Your excessive thinking about it made it seem worse.

Thought pollution is highly contagious and dangerous to the wellbeing of each of us. But little if anything is being done to stop the spread of it. In fact, if you look around, you’ll probably see evidence of it everywhere and in nearly everyone. It presents itself as worry, fear, envy, hatred, anxiety, stress, unhappiness, anger—it takes away joy and causes the inflicted to live outside of the present moment because their minds are polluted with thoughts about things that have already occurred or have not yet happened.

Through my desire to unearth happy moments—free from thought pollution—I found the real answer is in being at peace and living in the present moment. As trite as that may sound—that is where true happiness is revealed. It’s not found, made, or produced by someone or something. Happiness is uncovered when we take away the worry, the anxiety, the stress, the over-thinking—the thought pollution—only then does happiness exist in each and every one of us.

The problem is that most of us have too much in our heads. The thoughts that are disserving to a person are what I refer to as “trash”. Taking Out the Trash (that negative and self-defeating thought pollution) allows a person to make room for empowering messages and peaceful living. But, if you simply Take Out the Trash and then continue to make more trash, peaceful and happy living will escape you—as it did me until I started living in the present.

Living in the present takes you out of yesterday, keeps you from attempting to experience tomorrow, today and instead let’s you enjoy this moment right now, free from thought pollution. In order to keep the garbage out, you have to stay here, in the present moment. But thought pollution masks itself as "the right path" to happiness. People erroneously believe that if they "think more" about their worries or troubles they will discover a solution and create happiness in their lives. However, the solution, really comes when we are relaxed, free of worries and open to receive new ideas. That is also where peace and happiness are revealed--from that natural state of letting the mind take a rest from thought pollution--then happiness surfaces from within.

 


Last Updated ( Tuesday, 29 September 2009 23:29 )
 

A Better America Through Online Social Networking

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I was having dinner the other night with a client of mine and an attorney. We were discussing the social changes of our world. In this day and age, people are uniting in a way that they never have before and talking about topics that once were perhaps taboo or at least considered a bit “out there”. In fact, the conversation likely wouldn’t have happened even just several years ago.

We were talking about the power of thoughts, the power of grass root efforts to connect a nation, the power of a meditative state to create peace, goodwill, and understanding, and the power of reshaping a nation through online social networking. Never before in history have so many people of different ethnicities, cultural backgrounds, and socio-economic statuses come together and shared their thoughts, their hopes, and beliefs. There is power and greatness in that kind of togetherness. Perhaps, a perceived level of anonymity creates courage and freedom of expression online. It seems to help even those who in the past weren’t inclined to get involved, to participate. Today, thoughts, expressions, and ideas are being spread by people via coffeehouse conversations, TV, print, email, and—maybe the fastest source—the World Wide Web.

Significant numbers of people gathered around TVs to watch our 44th President of the United States take office earlier this month. But, many others watched online and networked as the inauguration took place. It reminds us of how President Obama campaigned to reach this high level of accomplishment. He grew his support through viral marketing and online social networking sites. Thus, we witnessed the first African-American to be sworn in to the country’s highest office and we heard these words from him: “This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed — why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent mall, and why a man whose father less than 60 years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.”

When our new President took office, an instant change occurred online: the swapping out of the White House Web site. The tech-savvy site makes use of rapidly growing technology and social-connectivity—giving opportunity to all online visitors to join in the effort to make America better. President Obama’s “Citizen’s Briefing Book” invites Americans to submit ideas about an issue facing the government. The site’s contact page states, “President Obama is committed to creating the most open and accessible administration in American history.” More than 125,000 users have submitted over 44,000 ideas and cast 1.4 million votes. The site states that, “The best rated ideas will be gathered into a Citizen’s Briefing Book to be delivered to President Obama after he is sworn in.”

The power of social networking via the Internet is creating a new way to reach out to those people we’ve never met and may never meet face-to-face—to hear their voices, understand their concerns, and, with hope and perseverance, create a better America.

 

 

Last Updated ( Sunday, 22 February 2009 15:05 )
 
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